So I’ve had a very busy month, and an array of patients with interesting stuff going on; but the most time consuming part of nursing doesn’t seem to be the charting – its the family members. Family members can be helpful, complex or just down right annoying. I’ve had all and in between over the last month. One stuck out to me though. He was the son of an elderly woman; he and his sister took turns in caring for her. One week she was with one family, next week with the other, like a child in the middle of a divorce or something. The patient and her two children were so happy though, it seemed that the sharing of caring had totally eliminated that air of burnout which is so common among caregivers.
I went in to check in on the patient and the son was there chatting with her. He said he had something to show me and pulled out his cell phone. He showed me a picture of the most beautiful beach sunrise, it was just idyllic. I told him how pretty it was and how much it made me want to go to the beach. He told me that he took that picture that very morning. I was amazed to think that something that beautiful had happened a few blocks from where I live but, I was so preoccupied I missed it. Sure I was at work, but I never even thought about the sunrise, I was focused on work/details/tasks. He told me that he makes a point of taking a picture every day of the sunrise, to remind him how lucky he is. I was so humbled by this, I understood what he meant, but I saw it as such a feat, that he would fit that moment into his daily life.
I reflected on this throughout my busy day. I thought about how many wonderful things happen everyday and I as so focused that I miss them. So consumed with work, the serious nature of nursing, and the responsibility that comes with it, somehow clouds our view of the small, wonderful things happening around us.
With this, I pass on my reflection to you the reader. Take one moment to reflect on the beautiful things that happen each day. You don’t have to be by the beach like me, but regardless, the sun still rises and falls everyday, giving us one more day to live our lives – that is something to be grateful for.